Should men be able to stop a woman they had sex with from getting an abortion ?

I think men are the more important part of reproduction, even though women are very important to it as well. A man's sperm is needed to make a baby. Women are basically dirt. You can water it all you want but it needs a SEED planted in it if you want a flower. The seed is a man's sperm and the flower is the baby. In that logic I believe men should be allowed to stop a womans abortion because it's HIS seed that will be destroyed if the abortion is carried out. However, with respect to the fact that it is a womans body which will go through pain, a man who stops an abortion should be considered wholly responsible for taking care of the baby. Excusing the woman from child support may seem unfair, but if she won't pay to raise her child then she's a selfish bxxtch and the man should forget about her and raise the child.