My boyfriends friends think he's whipped, he thinks im "work?"?

Since your not married you should only see each other max 3 times a week. Trust me thats a lot anymore and you each don't get to be "you". Guessing your under 18, so your at the age where personal growth is the most important thing. And try to masturbate more if your demanding sex. The more you hang out the more it becomes routine and that initial spark begins to dim, Less is more.